Now that you know EXACTLY how to experience toe-curling orgasms…let’s dive into the cornucopia of sexual positions…
And how to NEVER get in a “missionary” rut ever again! Fulfill your lusty longings with this fun guide 🙂
You are going to see some familiar friends in these pages but what’s different is I will tell you what type of orgasm they are great for achieving for you…
AND a bunch of tricks and variations to modify them to suit you!
From your stamina…to flexibility…to your partner’s size…it’s all considered and listed for you!
First, though, let me just mention that our “models” are a teeny bit creepy. I don’t know about you but faceless people tend to weird me out. But I suppose they are slightly better than the people in Joy of Sex (remember that…70’s pubic-hair-a-palooza! ha!)
Face to Face Positions
Facing each other allows you to talk, gaze into each other’s eyes, and to passionately kiss during intercourse. But it doesn’t have to be all sweetness…you can throw plenty of spice in with these!
Not Your Mama’s Missionary
Ideal for: romantic connection, The Cuddle Hormone technique
How to: lie on your back with legs open, easy access for him to slide right in
Cucumber Considerations: comfortable for all sizes
Fitness Level: low
Orgasm Type: clitoral with added manual stimulation
Variations: Feel free to massage (or spank!) his booty like in the picture. Also, massaging or running nails down his back feels good. Add in a pillow or tilt your hips upward a few inches and have him use shallow strokes to get in a little G-spot stimulation.
Over the Shoulder
Ideal for: deep penetration with eye contact, anal penetration if desired
How to: from missionary, just swing one or both ankles over his shoulders
Cucumber Considerations: awesome for the small-average size penis, he can get very deep!
Fitness Level: he needs arms strength and stamina, you should stretch out your hamstrings to warm up!
Orgasm Type: deep thrusting can reach the A-spot, shallow thrusting can reach the G-spot
Variations: you can put your feet against his chest or shoulders for even deeper penetration, also, hoisting your feet up and over you, resting them against a wall or bed frame feels quite acrobatic but is quite easy (not to use if you are gassy as the pressure on your tummy may cause a toot to escape!).
Another variation is your legs closed together and straight up in the air, he enters you either in push-up position or on his knees, it feels extra tight AND the friction can stimulate your clitoris!
The Push-Up
Ideal for: admiring his arms and chest
How to: from missionary, he pushes up onto his hands, arms extended
Cucumber Considerations: great for all sizes!
Fitness Level: he needs arm strength
Orgasm Type: clitoral, also easy to add-in a vibrator with this one
Variations: If he’s well-endowed, try a slow sliding and rocking motion with this position. He can control the pace and depth. He can also angle his pubic bone toward your clit to get some added stimulation there.
The Outsider
Ideal for: romantic connection with clitoral stimulation
How to: you lie on your back, legs together, he straddles your legs and penetrates
Cucumber Considerations: great for larger guys but works for all
Fitness Level: low
Orgasm Type: clitoral is possible
Variations: use a pillow under your hips to give a slightly different sensation/angle, place a vibrator against yourself for added zing
The Slow Ride
Ideal for: G-spot stimulation and slow lovemaking, bonus that he feels your breasts rubbing against his chest
How to: he lies on his back (feet extending or over the bed as shown), have one leg extended between his while the other drapes over his side. Slide yourself on to him then use slow sliding motions with your body to create friction
Cucumber Considerations: not great for teeny weenies, he can easily slip out
Fitness Level: low-medium
Orgasm Type: G-spot
Variations: you can try both legs extended or both straddling him to vary it up
Ride ’em Cowgirl
Ideal for: female controlled depth/pace, clitoral stimulation, and he gets to watch your boobs bounce around
How to: he lies on his back, you straddle him and lower yourself on board
Cucumber Considerations: works for any size, you control the depth!
Fitness Level: medium (can be tough on your knees for extended periods) also gives your legs a workout!
Orgasm Type: clitoral
Variations: he can elevate his back with pillows to be closer to you, you can also lean forward – the helps in getting added pressure and stimulation on your clit
Lap of Love
Ideal for: eye contact and for a boob guy
How to: he kneels on his knees while you straddle him and your feet are flat on the bed/floor
Cucumber Considerations: great for all sizes as you control depth
Fitness Level: medium (tough on both sets of knees, also gives your hamstrings a workout)
Orgasm Type: G-spot if you use short and shallow thrusts angling slightly forward, also good for clitoral stimulation
Variations: this works on the floor too! You can also move your hips in little circles in addition to up and down bouncing. Another idea is to arch backwards, resting your back on his legs/knees.
Warm Embrace
Ideal for: close skin-to-skin contact, slow tantric-style lovemaking
How to: while he’s seated, you straddle him, can be on a chair or stool or with his legs extended on the bed
Cucumber Considerations: good for all sizes
Fitness Level: low
Orgasm Type: not ideal for your quick orgasm, however, prolonged contact with small rocking movements can build to a powerful orgasm (but it takes time)
Variations: try this on a rocking chair!
Tree Climber
Ideal for: men with upper body strength with petite partners, feels very exhilarating!
How to: you climb him and wrap your legs around his waist while he lifts you up
Cucumber Considerations: smaller penises can slip out with too much bouncing
Fitness Level: athletic, you need to trust he can hold you up!
Orgasm Type: clitoral if you can rub your mound against his pubic bone, larger penises can also reach A-spot
Variations: lean against a wall for support, you can extend one leg while keeping one foot on the ground, too, to give his arms a break. For the extremely flexible and daring, arch yourself backwards in a back bend and rest your hands on a piece of furniture.
Slow Dance
Ideal for: couples whose genitals match-up height-wise
How to: face to face, nestle your bodies together with your legs slightly apart, you may need to stand on your tippy-toes, and he penetrates you
Cucumber Considerations: ideal for larger than average, small size might not be able to reach all the way
Fitness Level: low
Orgasm Type: clitoral is possible depending on how you line up and if slow measured pressure can arouse you
Variations: you can lean up against a wall or counter giving a little more leverage for you to angle your hips toward him
Edge of the World
Ideal for: deep penetration with eye contact, sense of urgency if on a counter or table
How to: lie on the edge of the bed with him kneeling or standing…also works great on furniture, counters, etc.
Cucumber Considerations: great for all sizes!
Fitness Level: low-medium (if you use a countertop, getting up there can take a little effort)
Orgasm Type: G-spot if you tilt your hips up
Variations: try this one while still partially clothed…sweep stuff of a table or counter, hoist yourself up and just pull underwear to the side. Very hot!
Deeper Over the Edge
Ideal for: extra deep penetration with eye contact
How to: lie on the edge of the bed with him kneeling or standing…also works great on furniture, counters, etc.
Cucumber Considerations: great for small-average, can be too sensitive with a well-endowed partner
Fitness Level: low-medium
Orgasm Type: clitoral as his hands are free to stimulate you (as are yours)
Variations: try your legs closed and straight up in the air for extra friction and tightness
Downside of the Edge
Ideal for: eye contact and rapid thrusting, also your legs pulling downward pushes his cock up to the front wall of your vagina for great G- and A-spot action
How to: lie on the edge of the bed with him kneeling or standing…also works great on furniture, counters, etc.
Cucumber Considerations: great for all sizes!
Fitness Level: low-medium
Orgasm Type: G- or A-spot (depending on depth of penetration)
Variations: add a pillow to elevate your hips to get even more downward pull
Rear Entry
Classic Doggy Style
Ideal for: deep penetration, gives you a chance to manually stimulate your clitoris at the same time
How to: you on all fours, he enters you from behind. You can have your legs together or spread wide – experiment because leg position can give lots of different sensations!
Cucumber Considerations: great for all sizes, for the well-endowed he may be getting way up in there so communicate if his thrusts border on painful for you (our cervixes can be sensitive!)
Fitness Level: surprisingly low but feels athletic!
Orgasm Type: G-spot with shallow thrusts (and arched back) and A-spot for deeper thrusts
Variations: rest your chest and tummy down with your hips and booty still up in the air (face down, ass up), this gives him a slightly different angle. Another variation is to scoot your knees up under you to give him a totally unobstructed view of penetration.
Tummy Time
Ideal for: G-spot stimulation, particularly if his penis arches downward
How to: lie on your tummy with legs spread and angle your hips up toward him, he lays between your legs and enters from the rear
Cucumber Considerations: great for average on up
Fitness Level: low
Orgasm Type: G-spot
Variations: close your legs together and have him penetrate for added friction
Downward Dog
Ideal for: deep penetration, and G- or A-spot orgasms
How to: lean forward into a downward dog yoga position while he stands behind you to enter
Cucumber Considerations: great for small-average, hard thrusting might be too much if he’s rather well-endowed
Fitness Level: medium to high, depending on how hard he’s thrusting – you’ll have to steady yourself so you don’t fall foward!
Orgasm Type: G- or A-spot
Variations: if you are daring, he can also grab your waist and hold you in a “wheelbarrow” type position
Reverse Cowgirl
Ideal for: him to view your luscious booty, for you to control depth/pace
How to: he lies on his back, you straddle him facing toward his feet
Cucumber Considerations: good for all sizes as you control depth/pace
Fitness Level: medium (can be tough on knees after awhile)
Orgasm Type: clitoral, G- and A-spot depending on positioning
Variations: by leaning forward or tilting your hips, you can reach all the angles of your lady bits, including your clitoris which you can rub or press against his leg
Seated Reach Around
Ideal for: female controlled depth/pace and clitoral and nipple stimulation
How to: while he’s seated, sit on his lap, your legs can straddle him or your feet can be on the floor
Cucumber Considerations: great for all sizes, particularly with your feet on the floor to control depth
Fitness Level: medium
Orgasm Type: any depending on exact positioning
Variations: bending your head forward and raising your hips slightly gives a different sensation, also can reach A-spot
Sidewinder
Ideal for: deep penetration with eye contact
How to: lie on your side with knees bent, he kneels behind to enter
Cucumber Considerations: great for all sizes
Fitness Level: low
Orgasm Type: clitoral as your (and his) hands are free
Variations: try one side, then switch over to the other side – see if you can stay “connected” while switching by rotating slowly around to the other side, gives an interesting sensation to you both
Sneaky Snuggler
Ideal for: a spicy post-coital snuggle for round #2, or a “need you now” surprise while washing dishes (arch back and tell him to slide your pants down)
How to: lying down or standing, arch your back and hips toward him so he can penetrate
Cucumber Considerations: larger than average
Fitness Level: low
Orgasm Type: G-spot since fairly shallow penetration
Variations: if you spoon while sleeping, this is a great way to wake up in the morning, especially if you feel his penis saying “Good morning!”
Spoony Side Up
Ideal for: doing the Heimlich (just kidding), can also be used for anal penetration
How to: he is on his back and you lie on top
Cucumber Considerations: larger than average for vaginal intercourse, since arching your hips back is difficult
Fitness Level: low
Orgasm Type: G-spot since it’s likely to be shallow penetration
Variations: he can stimulate your nipples (or you can!)
